Tuesday, February 9, 2010


TO BUILT A RELATIONSHIP


You haven't yet noticed the other person's flaws and it's as if the sun rises and sets with this new love in your life. Unfortunately, this phase doesn't last. The newness eventually wears off as reality sets in. The good news is that with the right mindset and attitude, you can keep the magic in your relationship.


1. Decide that you are going to have happy relationship. Anything that you ever do will begins with a thought. Visualize yourself and your partner in a happy and healthy relationship.


2. Handle conflict in a loving way. Every couple has disagreements. The way you handle them will help determine the success of your relationship. Don't insist on being right. Instead, focus on understanding your partner's point of view and be a good listener. This will help keep your partner from becoming defensive and he or she will appreciate being heard.


3. Be responsible for your own happiness. Understand that it's not your partner's job to make you happy. In the early stages of your relationship, your partner may feel flattered to know that you depend on him or her for fulfillment, but after a while, they will feel drained and suffocated. True happiness comes from within. Be your own source of happiness and that will make your relationship much sweeter.


4. Don't be consumed by jealousy. This can do serious damage to a relationship. The poet Maya Angelou once said that jealousy is like salt. In small amounts, it can add spice to a relationship but too much is unhealthy.


5. Don't take your partner for granted. Remind yourself why you fell in love with this person in the first place. Focus on your partner's positive attributes and remember that no one is perfect.


LOVE UNENDING LEGACY
(conversation between a mum the baby in her stomach)
Mom : Assalamualaikum my dear. How are you today?
Baby : Waalaikumussalam my dear mom. I'm feeling good today mom. But there are something growing out from my body!!! (his arms & legs) what are these mom? I don't like it. It keeps getting in my way. I can't move as freely as I used to be before!

Mom : Owh that are your hands and your legs my darling. Alhamdulillah, you are growing as you should.

Baby : Can you make it go away mom? I don't need these hands and legs. They are of no use to me now.

Mom : You must not say that! Be grateful dear. You will need them when you are born. You will need it to walk on this earth. To be Allah's servant. You will be in such a great loss if you don't have them in the future.

End of conversation...

The baby doesn't know the difficulties that he is going to face on the earth if he doesn't have any hands or legs. Because he never used it in the womb. For him, his world is his mom's womb. Can you see how similar we are and the baby? We have never ever encounter the life after death. We only know the world as the earth that we are living now. Just like an innocence baby. Our amal ma'ruf as our arms and legs in akhirah. We can live without them in this world right? But what about in akhirah? Can we leave without them? And we have been given so many reminders and guidances from Allah through His messenger and The Book, Quran. Who else can we trust if not our GOD, Allah? Think bout it ^_^
thanks to :

LOVE

such as meaningful word

this February is the month full with LOVE
so it is depends on how you define love is
not how you show what LOVE is.
without any appreciation on LOVE..
LOVE is not meant for a 'teenage couple' only
but between family members,
friends and your pets.
it is more meaningful

so please appreciate the people who LOVE you
and the people you LOVE.
however, LOVE can be over-appreciated
how?LOVE till it kills you..
the LOVE which make you suffer
the LOVE that makes you insane...
that's not what LOVE is...
LOVE is meaningless word
with a thousands of definition
so for those who thinking of LOVE
that could make you suffer,
better you stop right away...

LOVE
define it properly.
use it nicely.
and LOVE someone fully
with your heart because
LOVE is so ___________~ :)
(define the blanks yourself)
*for more nice picture go on to : http://www.flickr.com/ *

LOVE YOUR FRIENDSHIP

Friendship is a most beautiful thing happened to human being. We all meet some people with whom we never had a kinship, but they become so special in our life that it becomes hard to live without them. Let us see some points we should consider while playing a role in friendship. Many poets have described friendship as one of the most fascinating bond we ever make in our life. It's the most beautiful thing that happens to us.

Friendship is a relation that is entirely based on trust, belief of two friends in each other. We come across many things in our lives, about which we do not tell anything to people near and dear to us, but we freely tell everything to our friends. Many people find good friends but they fail to continue with their friendship, because they do not know their role as a friend.
Let us see some important points that we should take care of if we wish to be good friend for someone:

Be a secret admirer of your friend:
If your friend is good at something then do not praise him/her in his/her presence. Praising a person for what he/she is good, does not improve his/her qualities, but can cause over-confidence to be induced in him/her, which surely will be harmful for your friend. A good friend should never miss an opportunity to praise his/her friend in front of others when he/she is not around.

Don't prove him/her wrong in public:
As it is important not to praise a friend openly in his/her presence, it is also very much important to abstain from proving him/her wrong in front of other people. Take him/her away from the crowd and let him/her know where he/she is wrong. There is no point in proving your friend wrong in other's presence; it will spoil your friend's image in other's view. And additionally your friendship will be in danger.

Try to understand your friend:
It is always important to understand what your friend is worried about or what problems he/she is facing. Always try to understand the situation your friend is in and try to soothe him/her. It is evident that if people are undergoing some problems, they will not speak up their problems to their brothers or sisters, they will instead tell everything to their friends. Let your friend speak up, just listen to him/her and be with him/her until your friend does not come out of frustration.

Pull Your Friend Away From Making Mistakes:
If your friend is doing something wrong, it is your duty to let him/her know it at earliest. Keep in mind; best friend has to play a role of critic if he/she wants his/her friend to stop doing wrong things. But again keep in mind not to show your friends mistakes in front of other people. Sometimes it is important to understand your friend's intentions behind his/her actions and try to analyze situation, then only you should give your opinion.

The Ego Problem:
Never let ego spoil your friendship. It is no reason to be jealous if your friend is not at all able to speak to you and is with someone else, you have to be his/her friend, do not expect word of gratitude from the person you think is your friend. Sometimes there could be a clash between you and your friend, and you both stop talking to each other for some time, it is not at all wrong to speak first and say sorry to your friend, no matter what happens.

Try to Teach Good Things:
If you are a true friend, you should never give your hungry friend a fish, instead, you should teach him/her how to fish, this will give your friend food for lifetime. A good friend will never wish his/her friend to be dependent on someone.

Do Not Interfere:
Most important point that one should take care of is that your friend has his/her own life and you should not interfere in his/her life. You have a right to tell your friend what is good and what is bad, but you do not have a right to make someone do what you wish. Hope this will help you out solve some of your problems you are facing in friendship.


Monday, February 8, 2010

February = month of love
agree???

well, today i wants to promote to you
on the present for someone you love..

COUPLE TEE

unlock to my heart

soul mate

COUPLE KEY CHAINS

these stuff is slightly a simple thing
but it is depends on you on how to give it to your lover
not necessarily for the lovely young couple
but to the married couple also suitable

there is more choices that you can choose from :
http://red104-shop.blogspot.com/

decide then appreciate.
thanks for now

xoxo :)

Thursday, February 4, 2010

-REMINDER-
this is not personal blog!

this is just for my subject which require me to do some informative blog
still, your
comments are fully appreciated...
first of all i just wanted to say that this blog will be about anything
as long as it is
'informative'
however i think that its gonna be a challenge for me to get
an interesting topics especially to u guys,
the reader.

for my 1st entry : it will be bout
L.O.V.E
love between all of d creation in the world
but my main focus is in the video
"love between human & animal"

video

as can be seen by the video
it's clearly describe that the
relationship between the characters
are totally close from the first place
even after a year
Christian been put at his habitat,
he still remember his
'fathers'
the people who take care of him...
the way
John & Ace meeting with Christian is totally full with emotion
they are hugging with each other, with lion (
an animal)
such an awesome relationship...!

hOWEVER,
lets us compare their situation with our story today...
we, the children, likely to 'throw' the parents away from us..
why?
we, the children, likely to shouting at the parents..
why?
there are so many questions tht can be ask from this issue
and it'll be a long-long-long questions with NO answer...

it is a normal thing if the animal against the human
because it is the nature of human & animal
but as for today, a son dare to kill his family,
a daughter dare to shout at her mom's face...
so what will happen to our life in the future??
even today we cant control the situation
so surely it will become worsen tomorrow

this issue will not be solve within a day..
it will take times.
and it have to back to the individual personally
to respond for this issue
just for u & myself especially,
we have to think so much wiser.
we hv to be intelligent in every aspects..
not just on 'duniawi' ...
oke guys?

thats all for now..
i'll continue to write on this very soon
oke??

thanks guys for reading this...
xoxo :)